As if splitting up the heartache, the anger, the sadness, the logistics, the wrapping up of life as we knew it, the moving on and building new ones as if all that wasnt hard enough. As if I dont already have more than enough on my plate as it is and now I have to deal with lawyer, with the legal system, with the finality, the inevitable steps of ending a marriage and changing a family. With dividing up our lives, our childrens lives, just figuring out what life looks like now that nothing is the same.